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 Ever been so busy trying to make things work that any type of interuption just throws things completely off balance?
Take for example,me.I tend to be focused on about 3 to 4 things at a time,while everything else around me is pretty much background noise.Almost like a tunnel vision or ’tunnel concentration’ as it were.
My mind will be working so hard solving the issues I face with what I am concentrating on that if a new interuption from a source that is supposed to be reliable I am almost stopped dead in my tracks!
Annoyance,anger,and outrage are what go through me when this happens,even boiling out when I feel that something is so small and petty that I should not have to deal with it.I do not like to waste my time,and these little interuptions do just that.That makes me more upset than just about anything else.
Such was the night I had,yet before it was over my resolve is stronger than before.
What was my secret?
I will admit there was some yelling,but those yells soon turned to defiant bellows.I am not going to let stupid things get in my way.Why should I?If I have the ability to fix the big things in life,then the little stuff should be a breeze.
The defiance soon turned to determined self affirmations(if you do not know what self affimations are,I will be writing a blog on them soon. So keep an eye out) and it was not long before I felt a cool breeze of confidence again.Already I was coming up with solutions.
When in these type of situations it is okay to make some noise( but not really in front of people.Find a place you can be alone. ) but then take a deep breath and remember that you can do whatever you set out to do,and nothing is going to stop you.Answers and ideas will find you.